We have all heard about Cindy Sheehan's "resignation" on May 28 from her position as the "face" of the American antiwar movement. There has been much rumination and gnashing of teeth about her departure, some of it thoughtful (as with John Nichols' mournful but pensive
June 18, 2007 editorial in The Nation and
Rabbi Michael Lerner's studied May 30 response to Sheehan) and some of it less so.
But if you have not read Sheehan's resignation letter itself, sarcastically titled "'Good Riddance, Attention Whore,'" I suggest that you do so. It has been posted on websites everywhere, including
Daily Kos,
AfterDowningStreet.org, and
Michael Moore.com. It is more a rant than a manifesto, in which Sheehan, with plenty of apparent justification, rips into the flanks of the American left for the ways in which she was mischaracterized, pilloried and otherwise jerked around.
A few excerpts from Sheehan's missive:
"I was the darling of the so-called left as long as I limited my protests to George Bush and the Republican Party. ...However, when I started to hold the Democratic Party to the same standards that I held the Republican Party, support for my cause started to erode and the "left" started labeling me with the same slurs that the right used. I guess no one paid attention to me when I said that the issue of peace and people dying for no reason is not a matter of 'right or left,' but 'right and wrong.'"
"If I am doing what I am doing because I am an 'attention whore' then I really need to be committed. ...I have spent every available cent I got from the money a "grateful" country gave me when they killed my son and every penny that I have received in speaking or book fees since then. I have sacrificed a 29 year marriage and have traveled for extended periods of time away from Casey's brother and sisters and my health has suffered and my hospital bills from last summer (when I almost died) are in collection because I have used all my energy trying to stop this country from slaughtering innocent human beings. I have been called every despicable name that small minds can think of and have had my life threatened many times."
"Casey did indeed die for nothing. His precious lifeblood drained out in a country far away from his family who loves him, killed by his own country which is beholden to and run by a war machine that even controls what we think. ...Casey died for a country which cares more about who will be the next American Idol than how many people will be killed in the next few months while Democrats and Republicans play politics with human lives."
"Good-bye America ...you are not the country that I love and I finally realized no matter how much I sacrifice, I can't make you be that country unless you want it."
I have stood within a few feet of Cindy Sheehan while she spoke. To my eyes, she was no attention-hound; she was a woman possessed by a mission of grief and outrage. I did and do honor her raw guts, her ruthless candor and her steadfast resourcefulness in a political landscape that generally lacks all three.
But I have to say: what strikes me most about Sheehan's resignation letter is her sheer bitterness and her remarkable naiveté, both of which leave me thinking she had no idea what she was getting into.
Cindy, what did you expect? To morally convert one of the most selfish, self-indulgent populations on earth within the space of three years? To overturn the military-industrial complex and the massive idea machinery that supports it on the strength of one courageous mother's dramatic example? To promptly fill the streets with America's overfed, underinformed middle-of-the-road voting bloc in response to a war to which most voters (and politicians) are not required to send their children?
Look over your shoulder, Cindy. Rosa Parks refused to give up her seat to a white man in 1955 (and the Supreme Court upheld her cause the following year), but Jim Crow laws continued to be enforced in many regions for another 10 years, and bus boycott leader Martin Luther King Jr. was still at war against virulent racism when he was slain in 1968. Activists began fighting for women's suffrage in the 1820s, but women did not gain the right to vote in federal elections until 100 years later. The Stonewall Riots, viewed as the beginning of the open and organized struggle for gay rights in America, happened nearly 40 years ago in 1969; today many states still legally allow discrimination against gays, and the fight for the simple right of gays to marry remains a raging "controversy" nationwide. Public protests against the Vietnam War began in 1964; the final U.S. troops were withdrawn more than a decade later in 1975.
I'll wager that King, Parks, and many a suffragette and Vietnam War opponent and Black Panther Party member were tempted to "resign" from political movements fraught with rivalries, backbiting, confusion, and life-threatening danger. I'll bet the same temptation exists today among legions of the beleaguered souls who fight on for gay rights, for fair global trade, for media reform, and for protection of a life-supporting planet while we still have one.
Not to over-hype Cindy Sheehan. No disrespect, Cindy, but you're no Sojourner Truth or Martin Luther King. You are, however, an extraordinarily courageous person who stood and spoke while others sat and slumped in the face of atrocity. As a combat mother who paid a tragic price that most American families ducked, you wielded a moral authority few could challenge. But what makes you think you can declare the antiwar struggle lost after three years of (surprise!) public fickleness and continued carnage and political cowardice? What gives you the authority to write off the cause because you couldn't handle its pathologies any longer?
I make no pretense, Cindy, to knowing your ordeal as a grieving mother trying to wrestle with the beast of national political prominence at the cost of your personal life. I believe you when you say that you are flat broke and that your spirit of hope for the antiwar movement is broken. I can understand your needing to withdraw, to rebuild your life, to nourish what sustains you. I just don't get why you think your own exhaustion and bitterness sounds the death knell for the antiwar movement.
Your tragedy and hardship notwithstanding, Cindy, as a white American you have the relative privilege of picking up your marbles and going home in a huff. Plenty of people of color in Watts and Harlem and North Philly and Cincinnati -- and in what used to be New Orleans -- have no such luxury of "resigning" from suffering. Nor do poor whites who scrabble for lousy jobs in rural West Virginia and Montana and Mississippi. And it is these folks who are sent, disproportionately and not entirely by choice, to stand in harm's way in the insane war that killed your son Casey.
So it is not your disgust with spine-free Democrats and with backbiting politicos that I challenge, Cindy. It is your biliousness and petulance, your seemingly naive expectations about what will in fact be a long and protracted struggle, and your presumptive defeatism that disappoint me.
The antiwar movement will miss you, Cindy. But it will go on without you.